Donny, there’s so much here for me to process. So I’m just going to choose to say thank you for the extra prayer “walk”. Being in a career where I work with families the topics of Halloween in particular have come up this week a lot. So thank you for bringing up the scripture and thank you also for setting up this community to be one of love and compassion. I truly feel that we all honor each other and that is a blessing! Love to all of you!. ❤️🙏
This was a very interesting conversation and one that fitted in with some of the things we talked about in our group last night. Also one I need to take to heart and remember as I don't want to be the cause of anyone falling. or missing out on coming to salvation.
Thank you for this "bonus" inspiration today. And thanks for taking what could be a debate back to God's Word. Grace for all! But can we talk about Thanksgiving? A holiday full of parades and football and stuffing ourselves till we're comatose? I'd rather just be thankful every day and skip all the cooking and cleanup. I jest. For me, holidays are about people and spending time with them. So thanks for the reminder to put the emphasis in the right place.
Donny, thank you for sharing. I just spoke with Jan and we had a great conversation. I will take this to heart as I really try not to debate my faith or judge/condemn others. I want to be there and love others and let God handle the rest! God bless you!
First, I am not here to judge anyone and I hope that others who have joined this community know that judging others is NOT what we are here to do. No matter what anyone shares. We are here to love each other, encourage each other and use words that lift each other up. NOT tear each other down or belittle.
Second, I believe that only God can "fill our cups".
Also, in 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 it says "...do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God?"
If we are a temple for the Holy Spirit, we would be wise to take care of that temple.
Whether you're being narcissistic or not is between you and God as only God knows your heart.
I believe that Jesus taught us to put other first because doing so is good for us. We ALL need help in one way or another.
I hope this comes across with the love I feel ...
God LOVES you. WHY DOES IT MATTER WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU?
Matthew 10:28 "And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather fear Him who can destroy both soul and body in hell."
Proverbs 9:10 "Fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom".
Lots of self care. Meditation. Daily devotionals. Reading the Bible some days.
Reading many of our friends blogs here in Substack. Listening to worship music. I don’t turn tv on until after dinner.
Thank you for taking time to answer me.
Maybe it wasn’t judgement as much as pity. I don’t want it or need it. Again, not pointing fingers or saying you are doing this. It is just how I feel sometimes.
I don’t know why I am questioning everything I do lately. Maybe because I have been sick and weak.
Oh Jan, loving others is a give and take and it's just as important to ask for help as it is to offer help. I have no doubt you help others when you can, and it's pretty humbling to have to ask for help at times. I think the point that Donny was trying to make in his last prayer walk is more about how often we make excuses or let ourselves become "too busy" to be available for people. The answer is that we all need each other and if we love people and are loved by them, too, both things can happen. 💕
I don't think anyone thinks you were saying anything against Donny. You were being honest and asking a very legitimate and important question. That's what this forum is for! Hugs, Jan!
Thank you for this Donny , we don’t celebrate Halloween in my birth country Philippines. Well my family celebrate from October 31st thru November 2 call “All Souls Day “ and we offered flowers and prayers to the dead. We do celebrate Christmas on December 24 we stay up until midnight and have a family meal we call it Noche Buena. After we eat we exchange gifts that we all made. It’s very different cultures and my son were able to go with friends during Halloween but he never wear costume outfit he just go as is lol. We do celebrate thanksgiving with our family and friends and I do most of the cooking.And the boys watch football and if we are in Wisconsin it’s hunting season week most of us are in the woods except the cook . Thank you for this bonus prayer walk, I was taught to be there for others . And Jesus said ; love others , just as I have love you.
Donny I’m so thankful you chose to do this prayer walk! Just in time too! Sometimes people do feel the need to pass judgment, I as well dressed up over the years and as a mom I still do with my girls. god already know the intentions of your heart so “you and God” are who matters❤️🙏 have a blessed weekend everyone
Brazil is a country full of traditions and customs, Brazilian folklore is rich in legends. But halloween was only recently introduced into Brazilian culture, there is even a “fight” among historians who claim that this party has de-characterized our culture. In the past, October 31, celebrated a genuine character of national folklore the “Saci-Pererê” who has been partially forgotten in our imagination.
Particularly, I like the playful, the imaginary. I come from a Christian family, but my childhood was full of fantasies, I confess that I love the "joke" of children knocking on our door with the phrase "trick or treat".
I don't have children, but I think if I did I would let them participate in this joke.
Anyway, you are right to say that all these dates built into our calendars have a lot of commercial appeal, hence the importance of going to the Word of God and letting the Holy Spirit guide our behavior.
Thank you for this extra “walk”, for the message and reflection!
Donny ~ what do you mean when you say "God put this on my heart"? How does that manifest itself -- a feeling, a thought you can't shake? Wondering because you say this a lot & I'm trying to relate. Thanks, Jan
Thank you for the question. It's a great question, I think it's different for different people in different seasons of life.
It becomes easier to "hear" or "understand" when it's from God the more you step out in faith, fail and try again.
Because God doesn't force Himself on you, we can "shake the thoughts". And we can allow our sinful desires to pull us away from what God is saying.
For me personally, It is an impression on my heart.
You may find this helpful... 1 Kings 19:11-13
11 And he said, “Go out and stand on the mount before the Lord.” And behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind tore the mountains and broke in pieces the rocks before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind. And after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake. 12 And after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire the sound of a low whisper.[a] 13 And when Elijah heard it, he wrapped his face in his cloak and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave. And behold, there came a voice to him and said, “What are you doing here, Elijah?”
This 1 King 19 passage about the transition between God communicating in earthquakes, etc. to quieter methods because Israel hadn’t responded & needed to die -- really gives me something to think about. I’m a strong believer because I have had numerous “burning bush” kind of moments with the Lord. I guess I am always hoping to have more – because there’s NO doubt in my mind that it’s Him then.
Perhaps I am at the point in life that I need to have more Faith, Trust that He is talking to me in more subtle ways. I’m still not sure what “impression on your heart” means, but thanks, Donny, for making me want to think about it…
I was writing my comment for Wednesday's prayer walk when I saw this new post. I don't know if I can do it but I'll answer for both. 1) Wednesday prayer is interesting, it is true that I am often busy because I am very involved in my parish. I like to serve and be available for others, it's my way of glorifying God and being close to Him. I don't do it to be recognized or get satisfaction from it. But I know it's also a way to fill a void, I live alone and loneliness is a painful thing for me. Getting involved, sometimes to the point of exhaustion, is my way of filling that void. I tend to accept everything that is asked of me or proposed to me, I know that this is not the solution and I often ask God to guide me. I really liked the passage of Marthe and Marie, I had trouble with this passage for a long time, but when I asked for help I understood that we were the 2, to be in the action all by being close to God, by being available to establish a true relationship with Him. Which is not always easy for me. 2) I find it very interesting to talk about these upcoming events. I don't like the Halloween party, its disguises and all the commercial aspect that there is on this occasion, but I don't pass judgment on those who participate in it. In France this party is not very popular, some children dress up and go to people's houses to ask for sweets. On the other hand, Christmas is very celebrated, it is an opportunity to get together with family. OK the date of the 25th is certainly not the day of the birth of Jesus but does it have a great importance? The main thing is to celebrate the coming of Him who became man for our salvation. Today it has unfortunately become a very commercial party where the sacred side has practically disappeared, giving gifts and eating well are very important. It's not always easy not to judge, I often ask God to help me in this process, I think we are all different with different ideas and convictions, I tell myself that I have to trust God , he alone can guide me to have an attitude of respect and understanding towards my neighbour. Sorry I was a bit long!!! A big thank you Dan for everything you bring us: your music, your prayer walks that allow me to reflect and pray on subjects that touch me a lot. I do not have your biblical knowledge even if I take courses and these discussions push me to deepen my faith. May God protect and guide you 🙏
This is very thought provoking. I appreciate the opportunity to pray about the many messages Donnie has spoken about. Hope I will learn more about myself in this day.
What a timely topic, and so much to think about between now and the new year! Your Scripture reading was right on point – may any observance be to honor the Lord, not for any other reason.
AMEN! I grew up in a very strict religious church and it’s very hard living that way; being judged or judging. After I got saved and left that lifestyle; very early on I heard something that has stuck with me for years “is it wrong or just different” and I’ve often asked God that question and most of the time it’s just different and my job was to live my life the way God taught me and leave those people to God and let Him take care of it. I’m very grateful for that ability! Couldn’t have said it better myself!
Donny, there’s so much here for me to process. So I’m just going to choose to say thank you for the extra prayer “walk”. Being in a career where I work with families the topics of Halloween in particular have come up this week a lot. So thank you for bringing up the scripture and thank you also for setting up this community to be one of love and compassion. I truly feel that we all honor each other and that is a blessing! Love to all of you!. ❤️🙏
This was a very interesting conversation and one that fitted in with some of the things we talked about in our group last night. Also one I need to take to heart and remember as I don't want to be the cause of anyone falling. or missing out on coming to salvation.
Thank you for this "bonus" inspiration today. And thanks for taking what could be a debate back to God's Word. Grace for all! But can we talk about Thanksgiving? A holiday full of parades and football and stuffing ourselves till we're comatose? I'd rather just be thankful every day and skip all the cooking and cleanup. I jest. For me, holidays are about people and spending time with them. So thanks for the reminder to put the emphasis in the right place.
Donny, thank you for sharing. I just spoke with Jan and we had a great conversation. I will take this to heart as I really try not to debate my faith or judge/condemn others. I want to be there and love others and let God handle the rest! God bless you!
You are the best! ❤️🙏
I’m really struggling because I wanted to post in this weeks prayer walk but feared judgement from others.
Is it wrong to need to fill your own cup before being there for others. I’m busy filling my own cup. Does that make me narcissistic?
I really love others and want to help them but I also need help. In helping others will that fill my cup too?
I don’t want people to think I don’t love God. I do! With my whole being. I believe I am a giant work in progress.
God bless you Donny and this community. I love you all. 🙏❤️
Thank you for sharing Jan. Great question!
First, I am not here to judge anyone and I hope that others who have joined this community know that judging others is NOT what we are here to do. No matter what anyone shares. We are here to love each other, encourage each other and use words that lift each other up. NOT tear each other down or belittle.
Second, I believe that only God can "fill our cups".
Also, in 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 it says "...do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God?"
If we are a temple for the Holy Spirit, we would be wise to take care of that temple.
Whether you're being narcissistic or not is between you and God as only God knows your heart.
I believe that Jesus taught us to put other first because doing so is good for us. We ALL need help in one way or another.
I hope this comes across with the love I feel ...
God LOVES you. WHY DOES IT MATTER WHAT OTHERS THINK OF YOU?
Matthew 10:28 "And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather fear Him who can destroy both soul and body in hell."
Proverbs 9:10 "Fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom".
May I ask how you are "filling your own cup"?
Lots of self care. Meditation. Daily devotionals. Reading the Bible some days.
Reading many of our friends blogs here in Substack. Listening to worship music. I don’t turn tv on until after dinner.
Thank you for taking time to answer me.
Maybe it wasn’t judgement as much as pity. I don’t want it or need it. Again, not pointing fingers or saying you are doing this. It is just how I feel sometimes.
I don’t know why I am questioning everything I do lately. Maybe because I have been sick and weak.
Your list of "self care" items sound like good things to me. Any time spent trying to be with God is time well spent. 🙂
Thanks for listening ❤️🙏
Oh Jan, loving others is a give and take and it's just as important to ask for help as it is to offer help. I have no doubt you help others when you can, and it's pretty humbling to have to ask for help at times. I think the point that Donny was trying to make in his last prayer walk is more about how often we make excuses or let ourselves become "too busy" to be available for people. The answer is that we all need each other and if we love people and are loved by them, too, both things can happen. 💕
I wasn’t saying anything against Donny. That was what I was afraid of. That people would misunderstand me.
I love Donny and his prayer walks. He is helping me tremendously.
I was just asking a question about myself.
Thanks Cathey! You are a great blessing to me as well.
I don't think anyone thinks you were saying anything against Donny. You were being honest and asking a very legitimate and important question. That's what this forum is for! Hugs, Jan!
Back at you ❤️🙏
Thank you for this Donny , we don’t celebrate Halloween in my birth country Philippines. Well my family celebrate from October 31st thru November 2 call “All Souls Day “ and we offered flowers and prayers to the dead. We do celebrate Christmas on December 24 we stay up until midnight and have a family meal we call it Noche Buena. After we eat we exchange gifts that we all made. It’s very different cultures and my son were able to go with friends during Halloween but he never wear costume outfit he just go as is lol. We do celebrate thanksgiving with our family and friends and I do most of the cooking.And the boys watch football and if we are in Wisconsin it’s hunting season week most of us are in the woods except the cook . Thank you for this bonus prayer walk, I was taught to be there for others . And Jesus said ; love others , just as I have love you.
Donny I’m so thankful you chose to do this prayer walk! Just in time too! Sometimes people do feel the need to pass judgment, I as well dressed up over the years and as a mom I still do with my girls. god already know the intentions of your heart so “you and God” are who matters❤️🙏 have a blessed weekend everyone
Brazil is a country full of traditions and customs, Brazilian folklore is rich in legends. But halloween was only recently introduced into Brazilian culture, there is even a “fight” among historians who claim that this party has de-characterized our culture. In the past, October 31, celebrated a genuine character of national folklore the “Saci-Pererê” who has been partially forgotten in our imagination.
Particularly, I like the playful, the imaginary. I come from a Christian family, but my childhood was full of fantasies, I confess that I love the "joke" of children knocking on our door with the phrase "trick or treat".
I don't have children, but I think if I did I would let them participate in this joke.
Anyway, you are right to say that all these dates built into our calendars have a lot of commercial appeal, hence the importance of going to the Word of God and letting the Holy Spirit guide our behavior.
Thank you for this extra “walk”, for the message and reflection!
Donny ~ what do you mean when you say "God put this on my heart"? How does that manifest itself -- a feeling, a thought you can't shake? Wondering because you say this a lot & I'm trying to relate. Thanks, Jan
Thank you for the question. It's a great question, I think it's different for different people in different seasons of life.
It becomes easier to "hear" or "understand" when it's from God the more you step out in faith, fail and try again.
Because God doesn't force Himself on you, we can "shake the thoughts". And we can allow our sinful desires to pull us away from what God is saying.
For me personally, It is an impression on my heart.
You may find this helpful... 1 Kings 19:11-13
11 And he said, “Go out and stand on the mount before the Lord.” And behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind tore the mountains and broke in pieces the rocks before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind. And after the wind an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake. 12 And after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire. And after the fire the sound of a low whisper.[a] 13 And when Elijah heard it, he wrapped his face in his cloak and went out and stood at the entrance of the cave. And behold, there came a voice to him and said, “What are you doing here, Elijah?”
This 1 King 19 passage about the transition between God communicating in earthquakes, etc. to quieter methods because Israel hadn’t responded & needed to die -- really gives me something to think about. I’m a strong believer because I have had numerous “burning bush” kind of moments with the Lord. I guess I am always hoping to have more – because there’s NO doubt in my mind that it’s Him then.
Perhaps I am at the point in life that I need to have more Faith, Trust that He is talking to me in more subtle ways. I’m still not sure what “impression on your heart” means, but thanks, Donny, for making me want to think about it…
Thank you Donny! God bless you always! 🙏🏼✨
Thank you for sharing this it needs to be.
I was writing my comment for Wednesday's prayer walk when I saw this new post. I don't know if I can do it but I'll answer for both. 1) Wednesday prayer is interesting, it is true that I am often busy because I am very involved in my parish. I like to serve and be available for others, it's my way of glorifying God and being close to Him. I don't do it to be recognized or get satisfaction from it. But I know it's also a way to fill a void, I live alone and loneliness is a painful thing for me. Getting involved, sometimes to the point of exhaustion, is my way of filling that void. I tend to accept everything that is asked of me or proposed to me, I know that this is not the solution and I often ask God to guide me. I really liked the passage of Marthe and Marie, I had trouble with this passage for a long time, but when I asked for help I understood that we were the 2, to be in the action all by being close to God, by being available to establish a true relationship with Him. Which is not always easy for me. 2) I find it very interesting to talk about these upcoming events. I don't like the Halloween party, its disguises and all the commercial aspect that there is on this occasion, but I don't pass judgment on those who participate in it. In France this party is not very popular, some children dress up and go to people's houses to ask for sweets. On the other hand, Christmas is very celebrated, it is an opportunity to get together with family. OK the date of the 25th is certainly not the day of the birth of Jesus but does it have a great importance? The main thing is to celebrate the coming of Him who became man for our salvation. Today it has unfortunately become a very commercial party where the sacred side has practically disappeared, giving gifts and eating well are very important. It's not always easy not to judge, I often ask God to help me in this process, I think we are all different with different ideas and convictions, I tell myself that I have to trust God , he alone can guide me to have an attitude of respect and understanding towards my neighbour. Sorry I was a bit long!!! A big thank you Dan for everything you bring us: your music, your prayer walks that allow me to reflect and pray on subjects that touch me a lot. I do not have your biblical knowledge even if I take courses and these discussions push me to deepen my faith. May God protect and guide you 🙏
Thank you for sharing :)
This is very thought provoking. I appreciate the opportunity to pray about the many messages Donnie has spoken about. Hope I will learn more about myself in this day.
Welcome William.
Hi Bill! Yes I bet you will, and I covet your friendship and prayers so much! Thank you my friend!
Thank you for this! ❤️🙏
What a timely topic, and so much to think about between now and the new year! Your Scripture reading was right on point – may any observance be to honor the Lord, not for any other reason.
AMEN! I grew up in a very strict religious church and it’s very hard living that way; being judged or judging. After I got saved and left that lifestyle; very early on I heard something that has stuck with me for years “is it wrong or just different” and I’ve often asked God that question and most of the time it’s just different and my job was to live my life the way God taught me and leave those people to God and let Him take care of it. I’m very grateful for that ability! Couldn’t have said it better myself!